Comments on: Dear Me on a Bad Publishing Day… https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/ Sun, 14 Jun 2015 15:46:37 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 By: Mary Chris Escobar https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-46383 Sun, 14 Jun 2015 15:46:37 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-46383 In reply to Victoria Griffin.

Thank you, Victoria! Yes, it is amazing how sometimes you can pretty easily deal with rejection and move on, and other times it sits a bit harder. I’m so glad this resonated with you — and thank you so much for sharing with others. I’m honored!

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By: Mary Chris Escobar https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-46381 Sat, 13 Jun 2015 13:26:03 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-46381 In reply to Caroline Sandon.

Exactly! Thanks so much for reading and commenting, Caroline. Wishing you many of those magic moments of good reviews and calls with happy news!

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By: Caroline Sandon https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-46380 Sat, 13 Jun 2015 07:39:37 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-46380 Great post, rejection is something we have to get used to but when we have the positive review or that wonderful call from our agent saying “I have good news” the tears and the traumas are somehow all worthwhile.

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By: Victoria Griffin https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-46379 Sat, 13 Jun 2015 01:01:27 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-46379 This is perfect. The line about some rejections wiggling their way into your psyche is extremely true—some of them just hurt more than others. I will definitely be bookmarking this article for later. This is excellent advice, which I will certainly share and take for myself (or at least try to).

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By: Mary Chris Escobar https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-39332 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 23:58:57 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-39332 In reply to DeAnna Ross.

Thanks, DeAnna! We do seem to like to kick ourselves while we’re down, don’t we? Though easier said than done, I do think that the best thing we can do is keep right on writing through all of it. I so appreciate you taking a minute to share your thoughts!

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By: Mary Chris Escobar https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-39331 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 23:54:25 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-39331 In reply to Lynn LIpinski.

You know, I think that “Dear Writer,” thing is really, really hard. You put so much of yourself into your stories and then to be addressed in a way that feels so impersonal — it’s tough. I am so glad this post found you at exactly the right moment. That is truly what I was hoping it would do. Thank you for sharing your experience as well and for wanting to keep up with my blog.

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By: Mary Chris Escobar https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-39281 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 17:43:24 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-39281 In reply to Kathryn Freeman.

Yes, I so agree, Kathryn! I’m always grateful for the high-highs to balance those low-lows. I’m glad that my post came at a good time for you and all the best for you this year as well. Thanks for reading and commenting.

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By: Mary Chris Escobar https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-39280 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 17:41:17 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-39280 In reply to Charli Mills.

Thank you so much, Charli! And yes, Annie’s of course. (Though I’m just as happy to be associated with a warm cup of tea.)

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By: DeAnna Ross https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-39279 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 17:30:47 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-39279 this. It's so hard sometimes to take rejection. We can be harder on ourselves than anyone else and usually after getting kicked by someone else, we keep kicking ourselves while we're down. Instead, we need to take a moment, grieve it (love that you use that term) and get back on the horse. Thanks for sharing this blog.]]> I ♥ this. It’s so hard sometimes to take rejection. We can be harder on ourselves than anyone else and usually after getting kicked by someone else, we keep kicking ourselves while we’re down. Instead, we need to take a moment, grieve it (love that you use that term) and get back on the horse.

Thanks for sharing this blog.

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By: Kathryn Freeman https://booksbywomen.org/dear-bad-publishing-day/#comment-39245 Tue, 06 Jan 2015 10:34:36 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12595#comment-39245 What a fabulous post. It really struck a chord. I find writing is a cycle of ups and downs but we persevere because we love it. Something we sometimes forget in those down moments! Your post was a timely reminder. All the best for 2015.

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