Comments on: Am I Good Enough? https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/ Tue, 11 Nov 2014 16:32:22 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 By: Mary Jabens https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-29972 Tue, 11 Nov 2014 16:32:22 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-29972 Hello from Cedar City, UT! You were right, this is a great article and does explain mine and many others struggles when subjecting ourselves to outside (and internal) acceptance!! Thank you and hope your trip was wonderful!!

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By: Christina Hollis https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-28036 Thu, 30 Oct 2014 07:53:58 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-28036 Thank you. Creating anything is a lonely process, and it’s easy to become self-absorbed to the point of self-doubt. A great piece like this shows we all have similar concerns. I love your landscape too, btw.

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By: Sharon Maas https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-22953 Sun, 21 Sep 2014 07:05:51 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-22953 Thanks for a great article. I can certainly identify — though I have loved writing since childhood, I didn’t even think about getting serious about it until my late forties! The reason was fear; lack of confidence. I didn’t think I was capable of writing a whole novel — even though I was constantly making up stories in my head. What helped me the most was Dorothea Brande’s brilliant book, Becoming a Writer, the basis of which is Just Do It. And I did it! My first novel was published in 1999 by HarperCollins. I was 49 at the time.

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By: Suzanne Brazil https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-22780 Thu, 18 Sep 2014 22:03:18 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-22780 What a beautiful, nourishing message. I just celebrated my 49th birthday and have spent the last six months shouting at my inner critic to leave me alone. I don’t have time to be embarrassed by my failures. Your message is one of empowerment. My desire to write the perfect story (ego) prevented me from writing at all. Your reminder – we are all portals of existence – will be a touchstone going forward. A great post-it for my desk where I will strive to put my imperfect words on paper in my own imperfect way. Thank you.

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By: Kelly Martin https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-22753 Thu, 18 Sep 2014 09:06:25 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-22753 Hi Susan, loved your post. I can totally agree with everything you have said, a very soothing and nurturing article for the doubting writer (or any creative).

Interesting you mention a horse too, I had a dream recently where I was on top of a hill and all around was a sea of horses, they all looked the same, standing still, brown horses – with the exception of one. The exception was a grey/white horse and it was playful and cheeky. I felt I was being guided to come out of my comfort zone, but there was not a need for a huge leap, but to test the waters and enjoy baby steps, and I did.

Fear can traumatise and stunt our personal growth, but it also has its benefits in that fear can act as stop sign when we are on the wrong track and keeps us on track too.

For me I decided to join a laughter yoga class, that was me being the white horse and walking past the fear lol!

“If you are doing it, at all, it is valid.” yes I need this reminder, thank you!

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By: susan baker https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-22715 Wed, 17 Sep 2014 20:36:49 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-22715 In reply to Deborah Batterman.

Thanks for writing! The quote by Basho is so eloquent, so “spot on.”

One of the reasons I am so excited to have found this website and journal.

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By: Deborah Batterman https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-22660 Tue, 16 Sep 2014 19:41:21 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-22660 I couldn’t agree more re: at least acknowledging the doubt/uncertainty/fear that go hand-in-hand with the artistic process and I think you’re absolutely right re: women being a little more prone to self-doubt. No small irony to be reading your piece just days after coming across this wonderful quote from Basho:

“In this poor body, composed of one hundred bones and nine openings, is something called spirit, a flimsy curtain swept this way and that by the slightest breeze. It is spirit, such as it is, which led me to poetry, at first little more than a pastime, then the full business of my life. There have been times when my spirit, so dejected, almost gave up the quest, other times when it was proud, triumphant. So it has been from the very start, never finding peace with itself, always doubting the worth of what it makes.”

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By: sue baker https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-22594 Mon, 15 Sep 2014 19:05:44 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-22594 Welcome to my world! Ha hahahahah. Thanks for your feedback, because of course Doubt is on duty today in my head, too, as usual!

Just keep going!

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By: Linda Strader https://booksbywomen.org/am-i-good-enough-by-susan-baker/#comment-22476 Sat, 13 Sep 2014 19:30:08 +0000 http://booksbywomenorg.netfirms.com/?p=12141#comment-22476 OH, thank you, thank you, thank you for writing this…I go from “Hey my book is coming along great and just about everyone will want to read it” to “it’s junk and who the heck did I think I was to try and write a book when I’ve never written one before” in about 5 minutes. Repeated hourly. I needed a pep talk! Back to revisions…

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