Comments on: How To Handle Rejection: Six Tips https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/ Mon, 09 May 2016 12:56:56 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 By: Sheila Myers https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-47565 Mon, 09 May 2016 12:56:56 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-47565 Your first point is why I keep writing. It’s either that or clean my house on my summers off. 🙂

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By: How to Handle Rejection | Arun Scribes https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-47112 Tue, 26 Jan 2016 18:28:22 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-47112 […] Angela has sent me a link to this useful article. […]

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By: Kay Kendall https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46814 Thu, 22 Oct 2015 20:32:35 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46814 In reply to D.B. Woodling.

D.B. Woodling, one of my chief joys these days in helping other writers. I just love it. It really does not take up lots of time and keeps adding joy to my writing process. But that’s just me. I am unusually outgoing for an author, and I require lots of human interaction or I get stale. Besides, I love to see other nice people make their writing dreams come true.

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By: Kay Kendall https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46813 Thu, 22 Oct 2015 20:30:49 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46813 In reply to Barbara Lorna Hudson.

Barbara Lorna Hudson, I myself was a late-start older writer who was/is still in a hurry. I am in your shoes! But if you push too hard, you get frustrated and burnt out. That is what was happening to me and I was losing the joy of the whole undertaking. That is why I sat down and wrote out these tips. If I am not enjoying the writing process, then why am I doing it? It is all about balance and not comparing yourself to others. It is a struggle, I grant you that, and how! Keep on writing. Enjoy yourself, and good luck!

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By: Barbara Lorna Hudson https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46775 Sun, 11 Oct 2015 18:44:58 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46775 Spot on, Kay! But spare a thought for late-start older writers who are in a hurry.

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By: DC https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46659 Thu, 27 Aug 2015 17:17:21 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46659 BRILLIANT. Loved everything you said. Points 1 and 5 are pure gold! Thank you!

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By: D.B. Woodling https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46641 Fri, 21 Aug 2015 07:10:03 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46641 Kay,

Very informative, though I must say it seems many authors are so involved with the publishing/marketing aspects of their work (whether traditionally or self-published) that they don’t seem to have time to devote to helping other writers. I am a traditionally published author and welcome questions on GoodReads. I agree wholeheartedly with the sixth tip. And if one writes because one loves the process, the day will come.

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By: Suzanne M. Brazil https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46627 Thu, 13 Aug 2015 13:19:53 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46627 Loved “nurturing a tender dream” because that’s exactly what it feels like. When somebody jostles or bumps it, it hurts! Thanks for the encouragement. As someone who has begun to take writing seriously much later in life, it is helpful to know that working hard, and loving it is the joy.

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By: Diana Stevan https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46615 Sat, 08 Aug 2015 15:30:00 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46615 Kay, thanks for sharing your thoughts on this. What you’ve written is so true. A writer needs to avoid the naysayers, which can be hard, because writers are fragile at the best of times and easily knocked over.

I’ve had my share of rejections as I started acting at age 40, a time when most are giving up. And invariably, I’ve been rejected countless times – too tall, too old, and just not the right fit for the puzzle the filmmakers are putting together.

Similarly, with writing. Though I’ve had agents before for my screenplays, this time with my debut novel, I decided to self-publish rather than wait for that right fit and did exactly as you’re suggesting. I hired a macro editor (for story), a copy editor ( for grammar, etc.),a book cover designer and a formatter. I didn’t want to take any chances with my first book. I believe in best foot forward.

Now, I must get your book. If you’re like me, you have countless books to read. Many on my bookshelf, untouched, waiting for me. Right now, I’m going through a mammoth book a friend wrote. Best of luck with any future rejections. Like a friend often said in my early days – don’t let the turkeys get you down.

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By: Allan J. Emerson https://booksbywomen.org/how-to-handle-rejection-six-tips-2/#comment-46609 Wed, 05 Aug 2015 17:44:46 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=13863#comment-46609 Kay, I think you hit the nail on the head with your comparison of writers seeking acceptance and actors auditioning for roles. I’ve always thought of it the same way–you put your best “performance” forward, and if it’s what the publisher wants, you’re in. If not, you keep “auditioning” for other publishers.

All of your advice is right on target. Thanks for the article!

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