Comments on: Controlling The Crazies https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/ Thu, 11 May 2017 05:57:04 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 By: Jill Hannah Anderson https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-48081 Tue, 15 Nov 2016 15:39:08 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-48081 In reply to Jennifer S. Alderson.

Thanks, Jennifer! Yes, I’m sure I was in the same clueless boat about how long and grueling the book publishing process is. Of course I now know different.
And yes, chocolate and time spent with my husband (and not writing) help me keep things in perspective. 🙂

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By: Jennifer S. Alderson https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-48078 Mon, 14 Nov 2016 20:59:32 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-48078 Fantastic post! I agree completely with your analysis of others perceptions of writers (it’s a hobby, not understanding the time it takes to get it done) and love your lists – especially the “can’t control how much chocolate I’ll consume while brainstorming.” Date night’s a great tip, too!

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By: Jill Hannah Anderson https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47988 Fri, 07 Oct 2016 17:25:18 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47988 In reply to Densie Webb.

I agree, Densie. There is so much more than “just writing” that we need to do now. I think many of us feel like a snowball rolling down a hill, gathering too much “to do” things. As you and I talked, hopefully once we retire we won’t feel quite so frazzled! 😉

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By: Densie Webb https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47987 Fri, 07 Oct 2016 16:53:07 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47987 Jill, lots of good stuff here. It’s so easy to feel out of control and crazy! Thanks for this.

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By: Jill Hannah Anderson https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47986 Fri, 07 Oct 2016 16:06:18 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47986 In reply to Michelle Cox.

Thanks, Michelle! You seem to have a great following so you are doing something right (although you may be going crazy accomplishing it!) 😉 I told my husband it would be much easier to balance everything if I could have 30 hour days instead of 24. I am guessing you (and others) feel the same. 🙂

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By: Michelle Cox https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47985 Fri, 07 Oct 2016 14:35:45 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47985 Love this, Jill! Finding balance is my daily goal! So difficult. Best of luck with your upcoming novel!

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By: Jill Hannah Anderson https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47979 Mon, 03 Oct 2016 18:40:51 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47979 In reply to Beth Havey.

Thanks, Beth! I love your words, “It’s okay to have a life and to write.” So true!I think sometimes we are too hard on ourselves if we don’t get our writing goals done in the time we planned, and we shouldn’t do that to ourselves.

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By: Beth Havey https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47978 Mon, 03 Oct 2016 18:11:38 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47978 Loved this, Jill. You definitely capture the life of a writer and how other aspects of living pull us here and there. Yet when sitting down to capture a character, we know that our own breathing moments will end up in some form on the page and that is comforting. It’s okay to have a LIFE and to WRITE. Beth Havey

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By: Jill Anderson https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47977 Sun, 02 Oct 2016 22:53:44 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47977 In reply to Sherrey Meyer.

I’d love to hear your “three purse buying spree” story, Sherrey! 😉 For me, I tend to be the one who mows her way through a row or two of brownies when I stress about writing (or anything else).

I hope the writer’s serenity prayer helps ~ I’m still a work in progress with it!

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By: Sherrey Meyer https://booksbywomen.org/controlling-the-crazies/#comment-47976 Sun, 02 Oct 2016 22:22:06 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=16546#comment-47976 Can I relate? YES! YES! YES! Especially on the “buying three purses in one day.” There’s a good story behind that but not now. The list of things I can control and can’t is great. Will be copied and printed for hanging above my desk. The writer’s serenity prayer is another reminder I want near me all the time too. Thanks for this great post!

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