Comments on: Coincidences Or Not? https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/ Wed, 14 Jun 2017 17:11:45 +0000 hourly 1 https://wordpress.org/?v=6.5.3 By: Denise Barnes https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48676 Wed, 14 Jun 2017 17:11:45 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48676 In reply to Terri Fleming.

I remember it well, Terri. And didn’t we have fun at the health clinic? Must have been at least 20 years ago. Yet it was ages before we discovered we were writers. Amazing it took so long. But so super that both of us have now landed publishing deals with two of the top publishers.

Coincidences can set off exciting times in real life as well as in novels!

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By: Terri Fleming https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48671 Mon, 12 Jun 2017 14:23:50 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48671 I once bumped into a business associate at a little-known naturopathic health spa imiles from home in middle England. We laughed the co-incidence and became friends. Then we discovered that we were both writers and have gone on to encourage one another to publishing success. That woman was Denise.

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By: Denise Barnes https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48265 Mon, 16 Jan 2017 22:49:54 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48265 In reply to Barbara Lorna Hudson.

You say about bumping into someone in a small town which is more believable than London but I must tell you this story. My husband bumped into his father on two separate occasions in London. Neither of them had any idea at all that the other was going to London. They both lived out in the country completely separately from each other in different towns on different train lines.

But again, that’s real life where huge coincidences can and do happen. We just have to be careful in fiction. But I love them, true or fictitious!

Denise

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By: Denise Barnes https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48264 Mon, 16 Jan 2017 22:44:15 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48264 In reply to Maj.

Hello Maj

I’m wondering now exactly who you are, and feeling just a little hurt that I only valued your house and you didn’t instruct me to sell it! 🙂

I sold the business after 17 years to become a full-time writer, but unfortunately I sold to a couple of fraudsters. However, I wrote a book about it which was published a few years ago: Seller Beware: How Not To Sell Your Business. It was a horrible nightmare, and actually there were a few true-life coincidences which wouldn’t have rung true in fiction. It doesn’t seem fair.

Denise

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By: Denise Barnes https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48263 Mon, 16 Jan 2017 22:39:47 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48263 In reply to Charlotte69.

You’re so right. I pitched to an agent recently. She said, ‘I love the writing but it’s rather far-fetched.’ She gave me a sharp look and added, ‘Or is it based on truth?’ ‘No, it’s all made up,’ I said. She looked thoughtful and then said, ‘Saying that, the person before you had written something much more far-fetched and when I told her that she said, ‘It really happened!’

So there you have it.

Denise

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By: Denise Barnes https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48262 Mon, 16 Jan 2017 22:34:36 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48262 In reply to Rosanne Bane.

That’s a neatly-put answer to the coincidence question. I’d go along with that one.

Denise

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By: Rosanne Bane https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48261 Mon, 16 Jan 2017 18:27:11 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48261 Advice that has helped me is that coincidences are good for getting your characters into trouble, but shouldn’t be what gets them out.

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By: Charlotte69 https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48246 Sat, 14 Jan 2017 19:22:44 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48246 So true. The bar for fiction is so much higher than real life. Anything I could possibly come up with in my novel, I would google and there would be a similar but much weirder and worse news story about. Real life is indeed much, much stranger than fiction.

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By: Maj https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48241 Sun, 08 Jan 2017 19:35:53 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48241 Coincidentally, whilst idly reading this excellent article, I realised I knew Denise – she once valued my house! I had no idea she was a writer too! Having just rediscovered my passion for the written words, Denise’s story is fascinating. It’s a small world!

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By: Barbara Lorna Hudson https://booksbywomen.org/coincidences-or-not-by-denise-barnes/#comment-48236 Sun, 08 Jan 2017 10:37:41 +0000 http://booksbywomen.org/?p=17591#comment-48236 Many thanks for this thought provoking article.
I think we should try to avoid any coincidence that is too obviously a device to get the author out of a plotting difficulty. And as you point out, we can often make a coincidence less unlikely, e.g. characters meet by chance in a small town whereas this would be less probable in a big city. (My protagonist has several distressing sightings of her ex in Cambridge, where they both live. Far less likely if they had lived in London.).

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